Sunday, November 2, 2008

life finds ways to teach you things

haha, sometimes life has a real funny way of teaching you things.
In the last few weeks Ive met quite possibly the most abrasive person I have ever met. Ive never found myself to be trying to be rid of someone quite like this before. I mean really... asking me to call them when they get home and when I get out of class and texting me every day about what they are upset about now... honestly... I feel bad for how I must have seemed to priscilla. I rarely vented to her, actually it was usually me listening to all the drama in her life about her friends, school, her parents a lot, her brother and on occasion her blood thing... and giving her advice. And now that I think about it more, when I did want to talk to her about stuff she tried to distance herself and said I was being clingy...wow that was a really one sided friendship... I dont regret it, actually this whole thing has taught me a lot.

But now that Ive got someone who is being really clingy I feel kind of bad for how she must have felt. When I did want to talk to her about things I must have come on really strong. Next time she and I actually do get into contact I will have to remember to apologize. I guess you cant expect someone to be willing to just hold you up. Ive learned this:
You can not make your way into someones life once they decide they have no interest in sharing it with you.

1 comment:

Duc said...

Is Peabody STILL bothering you?